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How do I get over someone I am madly in love with?
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Brainstorm Info
| Creator: | anonymous |
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| Created: | over 3 years ago |
| Activity: | about 1 month ago |
| Users: | 43 |
| Ideas: | 333 |
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| stormer | 31 |
| missindia | 3 |
| jadugar | 3 |
| abhi | 2 |
| pape_dk | 2 |
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Keep as busy as possible...play high energy games like badminton... socialize with your guy friends... checking out hot chicks do help! Attend as many parties as possible and last but not the least have self-respect. DO NOT run after your ex it's a waste of time! ;)
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realise that if didn't last then s/he never loved you as much anyway, so what did you lose?
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Believe me, its a tough nut to crack. All I can say is that you might not be able to forget that person. But just do one thing. Try to flirt with as many girls as you can once you broke off with your ex. One fine day you will realize that you don't even need your ex and it was his/her mis fortune to lose you. http://www.revolutioners.com
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I read a marvelous book. "How to survive the loss of a love" helped me get over that horrible period when you are feeling awful after someone has left you. Another great book on the same subject is "Necessary Losses", by Judith Viorst.
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many people fall in love with a person that is obviously in love with someone else. the way to deal with it in my eyes, is to keep going with the believe that everything happens for a reason. And even though that person might seem perfect to you in every way possible, there is another, and you will find that feeling. Never give up, people only die alone because they choose to. So get the thought out of your head. someone does love you the way you love them, you just have to find them.
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Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? They'd always be looking for their "next" and you'd always be walking on egg shells. They have liberated your future! Being "in love" is really about loving who you are when you're with another--give thanks for having the opportunity to see the beauty of who you are, see them as free, and open yourself to your next better matched love! You're worthy of more love than you can imagine...
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listen i'm on the other side of this , a guy is so in love with me (not being big headed its true) but i cant love him back , im so sorry for what ive put him through but if u want to make the person u love happy move on . i wish he would it makes me upset to see him the way he is x
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Start by NOT reading some of these answers. Go seek out a professional grief counselor, read some good books by spiritual avatars re self worth, and just know that as with all things. . this too will pass. Be gentle with yourself.
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If you really love him\her and you think you are going to be happy with him and you are sure that he deserves you >>so go to him >>but don't make him destroy your dreams if you have and if you just thought in one day that he doesn't love you >>>i think it will be good for you to leave him and never say that you can't start without him >>cause make sure that you can start over again by yourself >>>.............. that's what i think ..~~
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Everyone has their own way of dealing with things... distracting yourself from what is causing pain might be a short-term fix, but you might be better off going inside the emotions and facing them head on. You'll be surprised at how they are not so debilitating/scary after all. If that is not an option then distract yourself by doing some activity that engages your mind in a healthy way. Sitting around dwelling on thing like the past and what could have been is going to eat you up inside.
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ask yourself if he is in your shoes or not. if not, then you can easily convince yourself that he does not deserve your mad love. soon this mad love will fade if one does not nurture it. focus on the idea that he does not love you as much as you do and that one needs a partner who would love one the same if not more. in other words you were bound not to continue together anyway if that person does not share same feelings and emotions and love
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well just think that hes not the only guy in this world...and you deserve someone beTTer than him or her
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just try to make yourself busy...and get rid off all the stuff that can make you remember of him/her. hung out and have fun with your friends that can make you feel better.
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"A Nail takes out another nail" I don´t know if it's like that in English. So... Make out a lot, PArty,Party,Party, then do a lot of things and don´t get drunk or thoughtful in bed.
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In Banana Yoshimoto's story Moonlight Shadow a character describes heartache like a cold. You know it will happen. Sometimes it will be mild. Sometimes it will be very bad. You may think you will die, but it is simply a cold. A fact of life. A temporary condition.
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look if u dont feel like doing something but crying then do it! u cant just hold it all in! delete his number rip his faces out of pic ect. Look if he doesnt love u then u deserve someone that can love u back save u love for someone even better. i no it will be very hard but make a pack with yourself or something... good luck
311.
Try finding another and as soon as u get , start thinking that you have find a better one.
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How do he/she know that you are madly in love? let that someone know you are madly in love with him/her.
307.
Don't get over them..tell them how you feel. The only way to get over someone is know that there is ABSOLUTELY no hope of you ever being with them. You need to hear them say it!
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just burst all your memories in a physical activity n look for a new one .. it would replace the old one ... keep going
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Do things that make you happy. Like play games, hang out with friends or whatever gives you a positive outlook on things.
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Instead you should join activities that takes up a lot of mental focus. E.g. learning something new. Can you imagine thnking of your old bf, when skidiving for the first time? or learning a new language. My point is - fill your mind with something else. A good way of doing that is to do something that you havent done before and have not experience in
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You should avoid doing things that requires little or none mental focus. E.g. if you are an experienced driver, you should not get in your car and take a long drive.
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Sometimes you don't ever get over them I know it's sad and very hard even more so when like me you see that person almost everyday and all u want to do is hold them and cry like a baby. But u put on a strong face and know that at somepoint things will get better. Sometimes it feels like it will take forever and to be honest you can never forget that person even if u wanted to but u know u don't want to, it was to great while it lasted however short it was. Love like that is wonderfull & awful
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you dont need to get over the person . if your feelings r true and honest ,they r ment to manifest . if they don't never mind .love isn't the business of demand and supply .it is always great and terrific to have as many people you love in your life .they are your extended family .
298.
Make a terrible fool of yourself in front of that person and others. The shame that brings will get rid of your misplaced feelings.
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It's been 3 yrs, 5 mos, 15 days but who's counting. I have tried most of the previous posts. It just never stops hurting. She was the love of my life. I have tried so many things to get over it and I only get some relief some of the time. I hide my hurt as best I can and mask it with activities that only give momentary relief like dancing, work outs, movies, and the such. I even tried the "astonishing" things.
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If you were already together and have broken up, every night, visualize letting her go in your thoughts and see her flying high like a bird. Fly next to her.
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Let her know you like her as a friend, and don't tell her you are in love with her if you think it will scare you off.
291.
Write a letter to yourself, either encouraging yourself to be brave or forgiving yourself for not making it happen.
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Take yourself out to dinner at a nice restaurant and think of all the things you like about being alone.
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Use that charisma you have from feeling in love to walk into an interview and get a new job.
275.
First, light some incense, then take a hot bath with candles and music, and think of all the things you like about being who you are.
271.
Be grateful that the world is filled with beautiful people and start seeing them around you.
266.
Don't get over it, enjoy the wonderful feeling. Millions of people would love to be madly in love, even if it hurts.
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In your mind visualize telling her everything you love about her, then see yourself put her on a plane or train and send her off to a bright future with love.
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well.. its tough but it is possible . the best way is fall in love with somebody else. thnk about all the worst things about the person u love and u realise they r only human.
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Watch TV. Idea # 97 enhances the effect. Whatzerface? Who? Ah, there are plenty of fish out there.
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i would tell you that you can never stop loving someone you will just get to the point of realizing and getting over.tell yourself how good you are and dont let any fool let you down.get yourself busy so dat way you wont have time to think. Always say to yourself that there is someone out there willing to love you no matter wat and it will get to the time dat a love will come dat we dont need to look for but it will find us no matter wat.hope dat helped.
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Imagine the other person in the toilet having the worst constipation of his or her life! Can you see the strain on the head and the neck?
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test I gave up alot to be with my now ex girlfriend. We told our familys we were getting married planned a wedding even picked out rings but my family is into witchcraft and even through i got my fathers blessing he turned agiants it because of his jealou
238.
my girlfriend said she is totally in lonve with me but were broken up because i hurt her
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if love is forever and you wanna get over this person then it could very well be imposeble
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tell her/him abt ur love, realise him that he is the one who made ur life complete. dont speak much but expres much frm eyes. if love is true.it will create its magic itself.
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i'm madly in love with someone but they like someone else and they dont know i like them!
217.
just give your problems to God.he will help you get over him or her.he might even give you a new blessing sooner than you think!
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you won't... i've been there... it takes time, just stop trying so hard to get over that person... let the pain be a part of you
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i dont know if my gf loves me any more its realy confusing i dont like it and i cant live without her...
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i need some help should i keep on trying to win her love again or should i move on but im really inlove with her so its hard for
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u think she will give me a chance do i deserve a chance and i proved it to her that i love her
196.
what will u do if ur girl finds out that u were talking with there best friend but it wasent ur fault
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have a few drinks and then all girls ull look gorgous so you cant go wrong unless if you forget to set alarm
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be very aggresive towards them and if they decide to tell you they dont like you and wnat to be closer just go for it
186.
do everything to win him\her back, but if it doesnt work out just deal with it! he\she is not meant 4 u! believe me.
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this did not make no sense but all these ideas made me laugh so hard i forgot i my heart was in pain at least for now!
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Tell yourself you deserve someone to love you just as you love them. So they are not it!!!!
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Little contact as possible and if you cant act like your fine without them. Tell yourself that your better off without them.
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Distance yourself, but attempt to work it out. Don't be pushy and if it's meant to be, he/she will come back.
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its hard i loved someone and she is gone now i wish i could have told her how i felt but i have to say i was scared. she moved
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know that you DON"T want to be with that person if they don't love you. I know it's extremely hard to swallow but do it!
156.
U can't it hurt so much that it feels like he punch u in da chest ,and if it's meant to be he will come back on his own time
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this isnt a idead but DONT TELL THEM HOW MUCH ITS HURTING WEN URE APART THERE ONLY LAUGH WITH THERE FRIENDS
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it has to come from both side or else it is not true love,and she is not meant for you keep thinking about that and you'l get over it
129.
forget about him/her and then find a really cute celeb to fall in love with he/she wont let u down!!
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Dont let em know youre hurting a nd madly in love, play the game no matter how old u r! But be sweet and AWESOME in bed! u WILL get your guy/girl!
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Do u HAVE to get over him/her? Is there a way this person feels for u also? Maybe? Well find out , and whatever u do dont EVER EVER stop being a challenge !!! GOOD LUCK !!!!!
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you are wrong pain can last forever, but you can get used to it until you dont notice the pain anymore like it wasent there thats love
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take people's edvices if they soubd helpful and ask them how to help you ( marinela ) 14yrs old
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give him or her another chance but too many becuase it will kill you ( marinela ) 14yrs old
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what if love a family member like a aunt but you lover her alot but you don't like what she does most of the time like she's not the same but stil have feelings and can't stop thinking about her
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im in love with someone who lives in another country, i never get to see him, it hurts so much, he has a girlfriends and heaps ov pretty frends tht r girls ova there, i feel like i dont matter. i love him so much, its not fair, i wish he felt th same way about me
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my biggest fault is the thought that it could work that one day it will all come togetther and be alright maybe im nieve but she likes me just as much as i like her we have so much in comin we have nearly happened so many times but the fact that we are both with someone else each of us wont let go of that other person because ther so safe anyway i just hold on to it i think of her all the time even when i havent seen her in 9 months its crazy
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i dont see her very much i wish i chould get over it i geus i cant help anyone here i hope some of you come up woth a solution because my heart and brobably many others are being torn apart ... why? because there are poeple who just dont understand i wish she new i wish she understood how much i need her i getting tired of starting again with someone else im just to inlove to give up even though .. dep down inside i know it would be beter if i let go but i cant ..maybe im an idiot but a hell maybe if im lucky she wil understand someday if not than i geus il have to move on i cant stay like this forever but ......... i know i wil ALWAYS love her ........damnit
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i must say to the brave wome below my thank you for your suport alot of poeple can learn from you ....
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the person i loved decided they didnt love me, i feel upset lied to, so many broken promises, she said she loved me, change your lifestyle and move on its the only way cos she isnt goin to change the way she feels, life is about losin someone u loved, its up to u to move on for your own sake
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you know what i've made about 30 coments if any body just any body could help me this is my e-mail just giove me advice in return i sow you what i have learned --- zerorules@msn.com ---
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it's been 3 years.... porn dosen't work, making out w/ randoms doesn't work, having long relationships doesnt work... going to a site like this doesn't work either... i believe that it depends on who the next person will be, they have to basically trump the old lover in everything and completely blow your mind and don't settle until they do.
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i wish it was that easy but love is indeed indistructubel and you canot destroy such afeeling it resoneates good vibes an besides if you love here that much than wy do you want to get over here in the first place maybe your afraid of bieng turned down than that's something youre gonna have to accept or is just thatother poeple dont want to be with this person? wel folow your hart... i chould say "hey its easy you'l get over it jackof a few times" but its just not sim to it it wil wear down dont worry
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Ps 34:18 - The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.
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if you truly are in love it comes from both sides this is the kind of love that lasts forever so you wil never get over her but nether wil she...
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love is like the borg from star trek= for whom are not familar with star trek the borg are a all consuming race that seem unstopeble and star trek is a vesel the humans made for exploreation supose you are that vesel and the borg has invaded you you canot resist becuase resistance is futile and love consume all your energie and stamina but there is stil something in return you wil get from your wound the borg leave behind its that you'l stil be able to forgive and you wil be stronger like the all of uss i know imay sound unclear but i am not amircan so .. any way im sure you wil get over it now it seem you wont but you will there's a girl out there waiting for you you wil meet here someday and you wil not feel empthy anylonger keep on hoping your dreams wil come treu work hard and you wil suceed i believe that all good poeple have the right to feel loved by others and if you are good good things wil hapen to you if not than become good person or at least try an try .. any way this wil be my last advice im stil with my girl friend and i am very happy i dont see here often but that doesnt mean she doesnt care about me :D hell i never met anyone who was so good to me and im sure if i do good thing il see here one way or another :D we all get what we deserve byee now and keep smiling ; (believe) D
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whaahahahahahaaaahhaa couple of reject like me here stupid idiots theres always porn it wil save you (shoots self in the head and die's laughing)
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but if you do not give up ... than youre a very strong person indeed if you keep believing in yourself you wil acomplish great things and who knows maybe
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If you truly and unselfishly love them, you'll want them be happy, even if it's without you, and you'll move on. It hurts, but you'll know in your heart it's the right thing to do.
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they are frome me i was very desprade but now :) im very happy and i hope it wil stay that way
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ah one day you'l realize there beter girl out there just waiting for a guy like you you never know.. it happend to me
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if you want that girl if she is meant for you than you wil have her if you cant have her she isent meant foor you
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i finised everything with her... i gave up ... i failed ...dont be like me plz ..go on dont give like i did
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call her and tell her that you are dead!!! She'll come to ur house... and then propose her ;) hahahahha
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i must say i stil like this girl and im 17 and i met here 4 years ago if you dont learn to get over it it wil get to you and you wil die alone and misrable just love here if she loves you back (even when your just a friend) ten you should be a very happy man :-
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stay with here die with here love here make here know ... dont give up anything is acieveble when you dont...
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never give up on here stay friends dont do stupid things think use your head and find out that your not only inlove with here ,fisikly ,try anything you can do it
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dont get over her, do anything and everything in your pwer to be with that one person who would complete you, even if it kills you, which is not as bad as living without her. Dead your dead, living and dead is torture.
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Believe that it is possible to love someone else, even if that is impossible to imagine at the time.
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i dont think you can, if it is true love you just have to wait for nature to pass it may never go, stay friends feeling will never go...hasnt yet
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don't. think of how to get back with her again. If you try, you can be compatible with almost anyone in this world, but you're not gonna fall in love with all of them.
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Fall in love with someone else. We are all highly compatible with a set of other people, not just one.
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listen to music, write, dance, learn to enjoy the pain of heartbreak by chanelling it into creative expression. don't supress it otherwise you'll just end up falling for another heartbreaker in some sorta masochistic hell








